I have good news and bad news.
Let’s start with the bad — your writing career might be a waste of time.
The good news — it’s probably not.
I’ve noticed a strange fear us writers tend to have. The fear of putting time and effort into something that just isn’t meant to be.
You want to grow on Medium, publish your own books, or find other ways to make a living for your writing. You don’t lack motivation.
If you knew this whole writing thing would work out, you’d attack the keyboard full force every day.
But you don’t. Why? Because of uncertainty.
Let’s just get to the point. I do know of one career-ending sign. If you don’t see this sign, you’re fine.
The Only Circumstance Where Your Writing is Destined to Fail
If you’ve never had an inkling, an itch, or a slight desire to write before stumbling across a “make a living writing,” blog post, you’ll fail.
Writing online has become one of the get rich quick schemes de jour.
Everyone’s throwing their hat in the ring now because writing looks cool and can make you serious money when done right.
This is how we end up with 100,000 blogs about “writing content,” “content marketing,” “motivation,” and “success.”
I’m one of those bloggers myself, and I try to do a good job of encouraging people while tempering their expectations at the same time.
I’ve had people request to work with me. The ones who talk solely about making a living through their writing are the ones I know aren’t cut out for it.
I once had someone call and tell me he wanted to start making six figures publishing books by next year. He had zero readers, no email list, and one failed book.
This type of “gold rush,” thinking leads to failure in every hot new industry with people looking to cash in. The same line of thinking for making a living writing applies to dropshipping on Amazon, flipping houses, starting an Etsy store, or anything else in the realm of online business.
Most people are all talk and no heart. They have no desire. They just see dollar signs.
I definitely write for money, but I write for love, too. Without love, you’re dead.
Most people are in it for love. You want to build a career, yes, but it’s not your primary motivation.
Maybe you used to scribble poems in your notebook as a kid like I did. Maybe you got lost in your favorite books and want to give that feeling to other people.
Something in you is drawn to words.
You love writing, but your love for writing can also be your biggest downfall.
So YOU Think You’re Ernest Hemingway?
Let’s just kill this noise right here and now.
The chances of you becoming a legendary author are essentially zero. Your book will not sell 1 million copies.
It could very well, however, sell 1,000, 5,000, 10,000, 50 or 100,000. I’ve seen good writers hit these numbers.
Notice I didn’t say great. Notice I didn’t say critically acclaimed.
The closer you tie your identity to your work, the harder it will be to sit down and write.
Yes, you are a writer. But you’re also a wife or husband, mother or father, sister or brother, son or daughter, member of a community — a complex person with tons of different things going on.
Writing is just something you do. It’s not who you are.
You’re not writing enough because you think your success or failure in writing says something about who you are as a person.
If that were true, I would’ve quit after writing my first couple of blog posts that made no sense and were riddled with errors.
Negative feedback can be used as a corrective system — like a heat-seeking missile making dozens of subtle changes in direction until it hits the mark — or it can be used as a label, a brand, a message on your tombstone that signals the death of your writing career.
Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do. Self-indulgence is tying it to things that happen to you. Sanity means tying it to your own actions. — Marcus Aurelius
Great writers tie their well-being to their actions.
When you show up, you get to give yourself a gold star, because you’re doing something 99 percent of other “aspiring writers,” will never do.
If you do write and publish your work, you’ve inspired at least one person — yourself.
I don’t know about you, but each time I hit publish and put myself out there I feel great about overcoming my own fears and self-doubts.
I’m afraid all the time. Afraid of an uncertain world with uncertain outcomes.
But I know my work isn’t a waste of time because at a minimum it relieves me from having to wonder “what if?”
After hundreds of blog posts and three books, I can look back at what I’ve done fondly.
Even if I never become an ultra-wealthy author, I can look on my shelf and see something I’ve made.
You might not think that’s enough now, but trust me, when you do it you’ll understand.
I believe in you, but to be honest I can sum up your problem easily.
You’re not doing enough.
If you wrote every day for a year, you’d get better. If you come to me with frustrations about uncertainty I know you haven’t done any work — any real work.
Leaving your posts in draft form and your manuscripts in unseen word documents don’t count, because the most important element of your work is hitting the “ship it button.”
I’ll always be here, but my message is always a variation of this.
Do the work. Show up. Wait. Win.
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