Hard but essential pills to swallow in order to become your best-self

Ambitious people are a dime a dozen. Most people doubt themselves. All of us — in some shape or form — are stuck in la la land.

One of the most difficult yet useful skills is the ability to balance your aspirations with reality. …


#1. How they treat service staff

Learning how to read people is a psychological superpower, but it’s also a skill that anyone can pick up. It’s possible to glean a ton of information about others simply by paying attention.

Ever since I started writing, I’ve been honing this skill. It’s not a hard and fast science…


Why do we love life quotes so much?

I think I have the answer. Life quotes have a way of piercing through the b.s. and noise surrounding us. …


Instead, attract it by changing who you are

Certain truths can’t be measured. There’s no ‘study’ that can ‘prove’ them. That doesn’t mean they’re not worthwhile. I rely much more on these phenomenological truths because they’re proven to be true over time through the experiences of many people.

After all this time, I’ve come to believe in the…


Without being needy

Neediness repels success. The more you’re desperate for something to happen or someone to come into your life, the less likely it is to happen.

You can want something without needing it. This happens to be the best way to attract what you want into your life. Go for it…


Change your perception, change yourself, and change your life

Are you happy with yourself? When’s the last time you sat down and deeply thought about that question. There are so many variables that make up one’s happiness. Our happiness level changes from day to day. We define the world differently because we’re all different. …


Being vulnerable gives you strength, but not in the way you might think. There’s a growing culture that says being vulnerable is powerful, but they talk about it in a way that makes you weaker in the long run. …


Your no B.S. guide to writing words people want to read.

Writing techniques don’t make you a better writer. A bunch of writers preach writing techniques as if their secret formula will cause you to have massive writing success.

Building a successful writing career involves a ton of variables. One of them is pure luck. Just the way life goes. But…


Without having to be ‘happy’ and cheery all the time either

Having a positive mental attitude doesn’t mean you feel good all the time. It doesn’t mean that you never experience setbacks, heartbreaks, and trauma. It doesn’t mean that you pretend that everything in your life is fine at all times.

Having a positive mental attitude means you adopt a mindset…


These ones stand out among the millions of low-quality titles

It’s not a stretch to say that books, specifically self-help books, saved my life.

When I was dead broke, depressed, and lacking hope for my future, reading books inspired me to change. It was like the secrets to success had been hidden in plain sight. I’d read these books and…

Ayodeji Awosika

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